This is a great call back! There's a Japanese word/phrase "wabi-sabi", which is the embracing of imperfection. I first heard it as "the flaw that makes something perfect." And perfection is all about the result. It's the journey that has its unexpected happenings,. the imperfections or flaws that make the telling of the journey the most interesting. That's where the fun is. Bless you and your Sailor husband!