Thank you so much for this truth. It has only been through my accepting the “tragedies” in my life that I have found a deeper joy. My heart goes out to you and your son, and am thankful for you and that you hear and see him. He is a remarkable young man. And I adore his sense of humor! Naked from the bath, standing in all his 6’ 220 pounds of glory having locked you out of the house and, via his nakedness, effectively locking his sister in her room. What a hoot!