Robyn, I appreciate your thoughts. I’m not sure I know any fully developed self-aware adults. I’m getting a lot closer though. I think the closest we can hope for is the consciously developing self-aware adults. I’m a little bit wary of anyone who believes or professes to be fully developed.
And I don’t know how to answer the second question about being ready to marry. Making a decision to marry someone takes A LOT of faith. That the persons you are now will be able to grow and flex with the persons you’ll become. It takes a sincere commitment too. I know you know that.
I don’t know if you’re married or have been or if you do or don’t have kids.
It reads like you’ve got a real honest concern for kids in marriages, particularly those that end in divorce. You’ve got a good heart.
Thanks again for your thoughts. All the best